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  • Writer's pictureAshley Collins

Modern Twists to Share Wedding Vows

In today’s weddings, couples are finding creative, intimate ways to share their vows beyond the traditional ceremony. Here are four heartfelt methods:


First Look/First Touch Vows: A private moment for sharing vows during a first look or a blindfolded first touch, allowing for a deep, personal connection before the ceremony.

Breakfast Together: Begin your wedding day with a sunrise breakfast, sharing your vows in a serene setting. A beautiful and calm start to a lifelong journey.

Sunrise/Sunset Vows: Exchange your vows with the beauty of a sunrise or sunset as your backdrop, adding a romantic and unforgettable element to your words.

Vow Booklets & Gift Exchange: Pen your promises in vow booklets, accompanied by personal gifts. This not only creates a tangible memory but also a lasting testament to your love.

BONUS: Crafting Heartfelt Wedding Vows: A Quick Guide

1. Start with Reflection: Reflect on your relationship. Think about how you met, your favorite memories, and what you love most about your partner. Consider the journey you’ve been on together and how it’s shaped your bond.

2. Express Your Feelings: Be honest and sincere. Share what you feel in your heart. Talk about what your partner means to you and the impact they’ve had on your life.

3. Promise for the Future: Think about your future together. What do you look forward to? Make promises that are realistic and meaningful. Consider both the joys and challenges you’ll face together.

4. Add Personal Touches: Include inside jokes, quotes, or anecdotes that are special to both of you. Make your vows uniquely yours. This could be a reference to a shared interest, a memorable trip, or a common goal.

5. Keep It Concise: Aim for a balance between depth and brevity. Your vows should be long enough to be meaningful, but short enough to keep the attention of your audience. A good guideline is to aim for about one to two minutes.

6. Practice and Perfect: Practice reading your vows out loud. This will help you with pacing and emotion. Don’t be afraid to make edits. Your vows should feel right to you.

7. End with Love: Conclude your vows with a strong, heartfelt declaration of your love. This is the climax of your vows, so make it count.

Writing your wedding vows is a beautiful way to personalize your ceremony and express your love and commitment. Take your time, speak from the heart, and remember, these words are a celebration of the love you share.


These personalized approaches to vow-sharing add emotional depth to your wedding. For more unique ideas or assistance in planning these special moments, contact Ashley’s Visions & Productions. We’re here to make your wedding day as unique as your love story.

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